“The Golden Bachelor” Star Gerry Reveals He Did Date After Wife Passed Away

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ABC’s “The Golden Bachelor” Star Gerry Turner is finally opening up about life after the passing of his late wife.

Gerry did reveal that he did date after his wife passed away but nothing worked out.

He shared with PEOPLE:

“I’ve dated a number of times since Toni’s passed, more recently than back closer to when she’s passed. For one reason or another, the attempts didn’t work out. I could give you a wide range of reasons, but it doesn’t really matter.

Every time I thought I was ready, I realized I wasn’t. Somehow I got it in my head that if you grieve for a year, that at the end of the year you should be OK. It absolutely wasn’t the case.

It was a difficult time. I finally decided, ‘It’s time for me to go see a grief counselor,’ because I wasn’t sure I was on track. I wasn’t sure I was mending properly. It was probably a life changer for me because I remember having two sessions with the counselor, and he goes, ‘You’re fine. You just got to give yourself credit for being OK.

I’ve still developed one very good friendship with one woman that lives about 40 miles away in Michigan. We realized that the romantic side of the relationship just wasn’t going to work, but we’ve seemed to maintain a nice friendship, so I feel good about that. If nothing else, some of the failures were offset by that one nice success.”

Love that he’s being more open!

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For the first time in Bachelor franchise history, 22 incredible women in the prime of their lives will roll up their stockings and step into the spotlight, hoping to find lasting love with Golden Bachelor Gerry Turner. Ranging in age from 60 to 75, these accomplished golden ladies will take time away from their established home lives, friends and family, in the quest to rediscover love – and perhaps even themselves – in the process, when “The Golden Bachelor” premieres THURSDAY, SEPT. 28 (8:00-9:01 p.m. EDT), on ABC. Watch episodes on demand and on Hulu the day following their premieres.

The 22 women who will vie for Gerry’s heart are the following: 
Anna, 61, a retired nutritionist from Summit, N.J. 
April, 65, a therapist from Port St. Lucie, Fla. 
Christina, 73, a retired purchasing manager from Sierra Madre, Calif. 
Edith, 60, a retired realtor from Downey, Calif. 
Ellen, 71, a retired teacher from Delray Beach Fla. 
Faith, 60, a high school teacher from Benton City, Wash. 
Jeanie, 65, a retired project manager from Estill Springs, Tenn. 
Joan, 60, a private school administrator from Rockland, Md. 
Kathy, 70, a retired educational consultant from Austin, Texas 
Leslie, 64, a fitness instructor from Minneapolis, Minn. 
Maria, 60, a health and wellness director from Teaneck, N.J. 
Marina, 60, an educator from Los Angeles, Calif. 
Nancy, 60, a retired interior designer from Alexandria, Va. 
Natascha, 60, a pro-aging coach and midlife speaker from New York City, N.Y. 
Pamela, 75, a retired salon owner from Aurora, Ill. 
Patty, 70, a retired real estate professional from Durham, N.C. 
Peggy, 69, a dental hygienist from East Haven, Conn. 
Renee, 67, a former Chicago Honey Bear Cheerleader from Middleton, Wis. 
Sandra, 75, a retired executive assistant from Doraville, Ga. 
Susan, 66, a wedding officiant from Aston, Penn. 
Sylvia, 64, a public affairs consultant from Los Angeles, Calif. 
Theresa, 69, a financial services professional from Shrewsbury, N.J.

A retired restaurateur and doting father and grandfather, Gerry [GAIR-ee] Turner lives in his dream house on a beautiful lake in Indiana. He’s often busy hosting barbeques, playing pickleball, cheering on his favorite Chicago sports teams, four-wheeling and spending time with friends and family at restaurants and local haunts.

Always a romantic, Gerry married his high school sweetheart Toni in 1974, and together, they lived a full and happy life with their two daughters, Angie and Jenny, and later two granddaughters, Charlee and Payton. Sadly, after 43 years together, Toni suddenly fell ill and passed away in 2017.

Six years after Toni’s passing and with the support of his family, Gerry is ready to put himself out there and find a love that will stand the test of time in his golden years. 

After more than 20 years of fostering love on “The Bachelor,” “The Bachelorette” and “Bachelor in Paradise,” “The Golden Bachelor” showcases a whole new kind of love story – one for the golden years. On this all-new unscripted series, one hopeless romantic is given a second chance at love in the search for a partner with whom to share the sunset years of life. The women arriving at the mansion have a lifetime of experience, living through love, loss and laughter, hoping for a spark that ignites a future full of endless possibilities. In the end, will our Golden man turn the page to start a new chapter with the woman of his dreams? “The Golden Bachelor” will air this fall on ABC. Watch episodes on demand and on Hulu the day following their premieres.

“The Golden Bachelor” is produced by Warner Bros. Unscripted Television in association with Warner Horizon. Claire Freeland, Jason Ehrlich, Bennett Graebner and Andrew Frank serve as executive producers.

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